While I am not an expert, I have had the opportunity to work with 6th graders for many years…roughly 15 years. It is a grade level that I love! Like any grade, 6th grade is NOT for everyone. I can’t tell you how many times someone has asked, “What grade do you teach?” When I respond, “6th grade!” I get comments like:
- “Bless you!”
- “You must be a saint!”
- “How do you do it?”
Frankly, I share those same sentiments with preschool and kindergarten teachers.
After my time at this incredible grade level, I am heading into the world of 4th grade! Some of you that have followed my story know that I have been out of the classroom for the last 3 years taking time with my family after having my third kiddo. I am back in action this year, but as a long-term sub in a 4th grade classroom. I am thrilled because change is necessary, change is challenging, and change makes us grow! Before I head down, I wanted to share some of the wisdom I have gathered over the years from my AMAZING 6th graders, which I couldn’t adore more. As you change grade levels, placements, or tackle teaching for the first time, I wanted to share some insights…
Here are 10 things 6th graders want you to know…
#1: THIS IS A BIGGIE…They no longer whip and nae nae! You heard it here first. Get it together! Bust out the running man, your version or theirs. It will get a laugh either way! Don’t get me wrong, dance! They will get a big kick out of it and then join in the fun. There is nothing better than a whole class brain break dance party, teacher and all!
#2: KINDNESS MATTERS. Always be a little kinder than necessary. Some days 6th graders can be downright moody. We all have those days. Sometimes a simple, “What’s going on because you don’t seem like yourself today?” goes much farther than anything else you could ever dream of saying. Keep that question in your back pocket. 6th graders need your compassion and your kindness.
#3: LISTEN. Listen to their stories and learn about their lives. They have to listen to the stories you tell, give them that same courtesy.
#4: HAVE GOODIES ON HAND. Stickers, ribbons, baked goods, trinkets are all well-loved by BIG KIDS. 6th graders may seem like they are “too cool for school,” but they will eat them up and love them! You can have a classroom desk elf or grade-level locker fairy! Trust me, they are not above and beyond this magical fun!
#5: BE CONSISTENT. Do what you say you are going to do and stick to your guns! 6th graders want you to be accountable and are expecting it! You may not believe this, but they remember everything you say you are going to do. They will call you out when you don’t stick to that extra recess you promised.
#6: ESTABLISH A ROUTINE AND HAVE STRUCTURE! Structure, structure, structure! They want to know what is coming next! Movie day is a fun surprise, random extended-time testing is not! Prepare them, update them, and keep them informed. A well-informed 6th grader is a diligent 6th grader.
#7: SHARE MEALS. 6th graders like to eat lunch with you! while they love to eat lunch and socialize with friends, they also love the chance to have a one-on-one or small group lunch with YOU. This doesn’t have to take place every day, but 6th graders like to know that this is an option. You will learn all kinds of great things and they will get to see a more human side of you that they may not see in a whole class setting.
#8: GIVE AUTHENTIC COMPLIMENTS. 6th graders love to be complimented and recognized for doing special things. They want you to brag about them when something is done particularly well or they have gone above and beyond! Let them hear you bragging, too!
#9: STUDYING AND ORGANIZING HAS NOT BEEN MASTERED YET. Most 6th graders don’t have it all together. Their desk will be a wreck, their locker may have a bagged lunch that is week’s old. You will need to teach them organizational skills and continuously help with the organizing process. The same goes for studying! Teach them how you want them to organize and study, and practice often. Don’t expect either of these to be automatic.
#10: BE THEIR BIGGEST CHEERLEADER! 6th graders will be your most loyal fans! Forever! Cheer them on in any way you can. Attend their extracurricular activities, ask about their weekends, and encourage them to try new things because YOU KNOW THEY CAN DO WHATEVER THEY SET THEIR MINDS TO!
Best of luck as you head into your school year! You will love your 6th graders (most days), I promise.